Whether you are taking a bus, taxi, Uber, Lyft, or other mode of wheels–be nice to your driver. They may not be having a great day, and could use a little kindness from a stranger. Be sure to tell them to have a nice day, and drive safely!
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#61 – pick your battles
Chill. Not every aggrevation warrants bringing drama into your life. If you are going to challenge someone or something, pick your battles carefully.
#59 – skateboard
If you used to skateboard as a kid, dust off your board and try again as an adult. If you never skateboarded before, it’s never too late to try. Start with a longboard or something with stiffer trucks/wheels if you are a newbie. Don’t forget the helmet, and wrist, elbow, or knee pads, if you are going to be doing tricks!
#58 – don’t yell at the tow lot guy
When you get towed, don’t take it out on the tow lot guy. He wasn’t the person who made the decision to tow you. He was called or directed to tow you by someone else. Don’t take out your frustration or anger on the tow lot guy. It’s not his fault you got towed.
#57 – bring a hostess gift
Bring a bottle of wine. A six pack of beer. A fun coffee table book. A dessert or appetizer. A classy serving dish. A quality deck of cards. A classic board game. Your hosts are nice enough to have you in their home. Be gracious.
#56 – drink Thai iced coffee
Start with a shot of espresso. Mix with a spoonful of sweetened condensed milk until it is smooth. Pour over ice. For fun, drink with a straw. Mmmm…
#55 – go to the circus
Whether it’s a fancy French circus, or small traveling side show, it is so much fun to relive your childhood and marvel at the colorful costumes and amazing feats!
#54 – get LASIK
If you wear glasses or contacts and are a candidate for LASIK (or similar eye surgery)–and can afford it(!)–you should know that having it done, and being able to see, is mind blowing. So worth it not to worry about (or have to deal with) losing or destroying a contact lens, or breaking or losing your glasses ever again. Just think of all of the room you will save in your carry-on liquids quart-sized bag not having to bring contact lens solution when you travel! Mind. Blowing. (In a good way.)
#53 – go camping
Pack a tent, sleeping bag, and a cooler that includes marshmallows for roasting. Go for hikes during the day. Tell stories around the campfire at night. Grill steak & veggie kebabs if car camping. Bring a hammock and book if you are in the woods. Don’t forget the bug spray!
#52 – have empathy
Be empathetic and compassionate to others. Even when it is hard, it is often helpful to put yourself in someone else’s shoes to better understand where he/she is coming from. Everyone’s path through life is unique.
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